He told me not to do it (negative request) – English Grammar Profiler
The English Grammar Profile B2 point 14 in REPORTED SPEECH is defined as:
‘ask’ or ‘tell’ + direct object + ‘not’ + ‘to-‘infinitive.
This point can be extended with Pearson’s GSE 60 B2
report orders, requests and advice with infinitive clauses.
She told me not to do it.
He warned us not to be late.
*Pearson also includes an affirmative example: ‘She encouraged him to study’, which we can’t be sure to carry B2 listing without negation. There are also many other common ‘reporting verbs’ in this structure that are not listed in the EGP such as: ‘urge’, ‘caution’, ‘encourage’, and ‘advise’. They are also not always in the past simple.
An iWeb search for told|asked _p not to _v:
1 TOLD ME NOT TO WORRY 940
2 TOLD HER NOT TO WORRY 282
PELIC STUDENT EXAMPLES:
My mom gave her employee some money to support her,
and told her not to worry about her job and that she could come back to work when her son’s situation is stable.
Taiwanese, Female, Level 4, writing class
*Note the above point also contains B2 point 138 = modality with could in reported speech.
I quickly checked my schedule, and just had one class, then told her not to worry.
Chinese, Female, Level 4, grammar class
3 TOLD HIM NOT TO WORRY 276 4 TOLD ME NOT TO DO 269 5 TOLD ME NOT TO USE 190 6 TOLD ME NOT TO BE 183 7 TOLD ME NOT TO GO 173 8 TOLD ME NOT TO TAKE 155 9 TOLD ME NOT TO TELL 151 10 TOLD HIM NOT TO DO 147 11 TOLD HER NOT TO TELL 131 12 TOLD ME NOT TO COME 127 13 TOLD YOU NOT TO DO 123 14 TOLD US NOT TO WORRY 120 15 TOLD ME NOT TO GET 119 16 TOLD ME NOT TO BOTHER 105 17 TOLD HIM NOT TO COME 88 18 TOLD THEM NOT TO DO 86 19 TOLD THEM NOT TO WORRY 86 20 TOLD HIM NOT TO BE 83 21 TOLD HIM NOT TO GO 81 22 TOLD THEM NOT TO CALL 67 23 TOLD HER NOT TO DO 65 24 TOLD THEM NOT TO BE 65 25 TOLD HER NOT TO BE 64 26 TOLD ME NOT TO LET 64 27 TOLD HIM NOT TO TELL 61 28 TOLD HIM NOT TO BOTHER 59 29 TOLD ME NOT TO TALK 59 30 TOLD ME NOT TO SAY 57 31 TOLD US NOT TO DO 57 32 TOLD HER NOT TO GO 56 33 TOLD HIM NOT TO REACH 55 34 TOLD ME NOT TO GIVE 55 35 TOLD THEM NOT TO GO 55 36 TOLD YOU NOT TO GO 54
37 ASKED ME NOT TO TELL 53
38 TOLD HIM NOT TO CALL 53
Finally, it turned out to be a telemarketing call, so I told him not to call again and I ha[u]ng up the phone.
Arabic, Male, Level 4, grammar class
When I figured out he [wa]is just wasting my time, I told him not to call me back, but he seemed he never cares[d].
Arabic, Male, Level 4, grammar class
39 TOLD ME NOT TO BUY 52 40 TOLD ME NOT TO EAT 46 41 ASKED US NOT TO USE 45 42 TOLD ME NOT TO CALL 44 43 TOLD ME NOT TO LOOK 44 44 TOLD HIM NOT TO TAKE 43 45 ASKED HIM NOT TO DO 42 46 TOLD THEM NOT TO COME 42 47 TOLD US NOT TO GO 41 48 TOLD HIM NOT TO GET 40 49 TOLD ME NOT TO PUT 40 50 ASKED THEM NOT TO DO 39 51 TOLD HER NOT TO COME 39 52 TOLD HIM NOT TO TOUCH 39 53 TOLD YOU NOT TO WORRY 39 54 TOLD ME NOT TO MAKE 38 55 TOLD THEM NOT TO EAT 37 56 TOLD YOU NOT TO GET 37 57 ASKED ME NOT TO USE 36 58 TOLD HER NOT TO BOTHER 36 59 TOLD US NOT TO BE 36 60 ASKED THEM NOT TO CALL 34 61 TOLD ME NOT TO EXPECT 33 62 TOLD THEM NOT TO BOTHER 33 63 TOLD HIM NOT TO USE 32 64 TOLD ME NOT TO HAVE 32 65 TOLD ME NOT TO TOUCH 32 66 TOLD YOU NOT TO COME 32 67 TOLD YOU NOT TO TOUCH 32 68 TOLD ME NOT TO CRY 31 69 TOLD YOU NOT TO USE 31 70 ASKED HIM NOT TO GO 30 71 TOLD HER NOT TO SAY 30 72 TOLD HIM NOT TO TALK 30 73 TOLD THEM NOT TO TAKE 30 74 TOLD THEM NOT TO TELL 30 75 TOLD YOU NOT TO TELL 30 76 TOLD HIM NOT TO MOVE 29 77 TOLD HIM NOT TO SAY 29 78 TOLD US NOT TO USE 29 79 TOLD HER NOT TO CALL 28 80 TOLD HER NOT TO TALK 28 81 TOLD ME NOT TO PLAY 28 82 TOLD ME NOT TO WASTE 28 83 TOLD HIM NOT TO GIVE 27 84 TOLD THEM NOT TO TOUCH 26 85 TOLD YOU NOT TO CALL 26 86 TOLD HER NOT TO TAKE 25 87 TOLD ME NOT TO DRINK 25 88 TOLD ME NOT TO LEAVE 25 89 TOLD ME NOT TO MOVE 25 90 TOLD ME NOT TO CONTACT 24 91 TOLD ME NOT TO RUN 24 92 TOLD YOU NOT TO PLAY 24 93 ASKED HER NOT TO TELL 23 94 TOLD HER NOT TO GET 23 95 TOLD ME NOT TO TRY 23 96 TOLD YOU NOT TO EAT 23 97 ASKED ME NOT TO LEAVE 22 98 ASKED ME NOT TO MENTION 22 99 ASKED US NOT TO DO 22
100 TOLD HER NOT TO TOUCH 22
I just told him not to think too much, because I thought the situation was very common in lovers.
Chinese, Male, Level 4, grammar class
However, I always told myself not to avoid going outside and I need to overcome the problem.
Chinese, Male, Level 4, grammar class
My teammate must have thought, “I should have told him not to drink so much.”
Japanese, Male, Level 4, grammar class
At first there was something [that] told me not to receive this assignment, yet I thought if I did it well, my boss would promote me easily.
Thai, Male, level 5, grammar class
Then, my grandparents encouraged us to make an extra effort in our lives, and they told us not to give up anything easily.
Chinese, level 2, grammar class
- *I’m not sure if they used ‘give up’ with the correct meaning here. Possibly: ‘give up on‘
- Also note only one example of ‘asked’ below, and this reflects the iWeb proportional frequency which is also mostly ‘told’.
The rich man laughed and asked Afandi not to joke, and bring out his cauldron, he asked Afandi not to fool him and told him that it was impossible for a cauldron to die.
Male, level 5, grammar class
An inner voice told me not to follow them in their adventure, but I couldn’t resist.
Arabic, Female, Level 5, grammar class
MY wife told me not to pick the phone up.
Arabic, Male, Level 4, grammar class
There are no other points in the EGP without the ‘ask’ or ‘tell’. We have also extended this grammar point with the base structure: lexical verb + noun phrase + NOT TO + infinitive which probably is in the C levels.
A search in the NOW corpus for:
_VV _N not to _VVI
1 CAUTIONS READERS NOT TO PLACE 509 2 CAUTION READERS NOT TO PLACE 321 3 URGED PEOPLE NOT TO PANIC 206 4 CAUTIONS INVESTORS NOT TO PLACE 201 5 CAUTION INVESTORS NOT TO PLACE 154 6 ASKING PEOPLE NOT TO TRAVEL 102 7 URGING PEOPLE NOT TO TRAVEL 95 8 ASKED PEOPLE NOT TO PANIC 85 9 ADVISING CONSUMERS NOT TO PURCHASE 75 10 PAYING PEOPLE NOT TO WORK 75 11 URGING AMERICANS NOT TO TRAVEL 73 12 TOLD ALLIES NOT TO USE 67 13 URGED PEOPLE NOT TO DELAY 62 14 ADVISING PEOPLE NOT TO TRAVEL 62 15 ADVISED FISHERMEN NOT TO VENTURE 60 16 URGING PEOPLE NOT TO USE 58 17 URGING PEOPLE NOT TO PANIC 56 18 URGING PEOPLE NOT TO VOTE 55 19 ASKING PEOPLE NOT TO GO 52 20 URGED BRITAIN NOT TO DISCRIMINATE 48 21 TELLING PEOPLE NOT TO GO 43
22 ADVISE WOMEN NOT TO BREASTFEED 43
B2 Vocabulary:
consumers, fishermen, investors, panic, purchase